When you consider dating a woman, more than likely you consider dinner and a movie, right?
Going out and doing stuff with the girl. Getting to know her, and all that jazz.
Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?
Most men understand dating a woman, as a concept for a sensual ulterior motive; however, this is not always the case.
Let's go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when "dating" a girl...
Mistake #1: Dates are only to make a good impression.
Many man feel they have to prove themselves while on a date, so the woman is attracted to them. Many may take a woman out to expensive places while showing her a good time; while they go on to build himself up as important by bragging.
Mistake #2: You can buy the love of a woman.
This is not a good idea, since you cannot spend enough money on a woman to encourage them to keep dating you. The majority of women today could care less how much you might spend on a date with them.
Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!
Going out and doing things with someone does not mean as much as you think it might. Simply going to on dates does not encourage a womans interest for you. You cannot create romantic interest by just spending time together.
Mistake #4: Men become boring!
A date with no spark of chemistry is boring. Although many men become nervous while on dates, they often interrupt themselves by becoming boring. They often talk about their routines while displaying little to none of their distinct personality. This is going through the motions with hopes of not messing things up.
Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.
Some men have a preconceived ideal of dating, how they think things should happen, and then they rigidly follow that perception. They may go out on a dinner date, while they ask her all the same questions as their other dates. This eliminates all the spontaneous fun of interacting with the woman.
What does it mean to go on dates with a woman?
The answer is simple; dating is a means of encouraging and building comfort, attraction and emotional connections.
It does not matter how much you spend or where you may go, what does matter is how you build your connection with a woman, while encouraging her feelings for you.
This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.
Your entire focus while dating a girl should be "how can I become more emotionally connected to this girl?"
Talk about your shared interests. Talk about your passions. Try and figure out what her hopes and dreams are.
Learn to rephrase your questions, rather than wanting to know where she works, ask her some interesting and fun questions, such as If you could do anything you wish, what would you wish to do?
Most importantly: HAVE FUN!
You might want to tell her a joke, even if it is not the best, just so you can both enjoy a good chuckle. Take care to guide the conversation towards the things she finds interesting, this helps you find out who she is. Be curious.
But most importantly, don't shy away from sex!
Although many men shy away from approaching the subject of relationships while on a date, you should build the intensity of attraction by building toward that.
Relax and be a bit wicked by flirting and joking with your date about romance women enjoy this as well. Therefore, if you do not, you have no means of building the attraction of the woman you date onto a higher level.
